Wednesday, May 6, 2026

Rebecca’s mental health calendar catch up

​2. new image for vision board — for decorating, for creating, for more travel 


3. Sunset — tonight

4. Motivational quote

We can’t control how long we live, but we can control how well we live — Jodi Wellman

5. Dance — tonight with Sean, “Melt With You”

6. 3 things grateful for 

  • Peter maturing and taking a bit more responsibility for himself
  • Mini vacays on someone else’s dime
  • A pared down and therefore roomy closet with clothes that fit, that I like 


Work update

Tax accountant life in May:

I got an urgent email from my corporate overlords about how I was 21 credits behind for the company’s internal  continuing ed requirement (and Eeep, CC’d to admin). I do have 7 weeks to get it done, so it’s nice they alerted me with plenty of time.

Of course, I’d taken a bunch of continuing ed courses outside the company in late 2025 — that it turns out I hadn’t submitted. So I just added 16.5 credits to company compliance. And I’m already signed up for 2 more this month. Based on the email, I went ahead and signed up for 3 internal credits this month. (I may have more external credits but I don’t want to bother looking.)

Which is all to say: this is why I’m taking a banking AUDIT course right this minute. Context for non accountants: Audit =\= tax. I’ve got a list of personal emails and phone calls to take care of during this 2-hour course that won’t be paying attention to. 

Multitasking at its finest. 

Sunday, May 3, 2026

Rebecca’s mental health calendar:

​3 things I like about myself:

  • My ability to organize fun 
  • My curly hair
  • My love of learning 

I need a vision board when I get home. And I’ll watch a later sunset because today and tomorrow are super cloudy. 


What brought me joy today:

What brought me joy today:

1. Back with husband after 2 nights apart

2. Seeing him lauded over and over at opening day of conference

3. Bacon wrapped dates

4. Making friends with attendees

5. Spending the morning with my BFF

6. New dresser for son

7. A good visit with mom

8. Surprise chocolate 


Rest well, but also love friends well

Can I stay in bed all morning?

Yes. But I probably won’t. 

  • Finished the NYT crossword. 
  • Organized reading vacation weekend 
  • Scrolled social media awhile
  • Could do some reading…

But also want yo hang out with Barbara! 




Saturday, May 2, 2026

May Ins & Outs

​In: 

  • Board games 
  • Riding bikes
  • High quality chocolate
  • Reading
  • Shelves
  • Oatmeal for breakfast
  • Making new friends or at least hanging out with new people while singing sea shanties or playing bar trivia 
  • Stretching
  • Birthday cards
  • Continuing ed for tax

Out:

  • Sugar
  • Lemonade
  • Acid reflux 


Friday, May 1, 2026

10 things that I am into

​Number one. Memorizing quotes.

Number two. Baking cookies.

Number three. Reading.

Number four. Riding bikes with Sean or friends.

Number five. Traveling.

Number six. Going to museums.

Number seven. Organizing things, especially organizing fun.

Number eight. Sending birthday cards and happy mail.

Number nine. Knowledge, learned through reading, lectures, podcast, journaling, conversations, trivia.

Number 10. Otters, board games, cheese, Italian, movies, needle work,… I’m not sure what the last one is. It is the last one should just be lists. 

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