Wednesday, September 16, 2026

LOOKED UP rejection dysphoria

https://www.prosperhealth.io/blog/rejection-sensitive-dysphoria-in-autism

We learned this from therapist Hailey Light. 

Separately, Sean looked up and feels this fits: Avoidant Personality Disorder (AvPD) is a recognized mental health condition characterized by extreme social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and hypersensitivity to negative evaluation. People with AvPD intensely fear rejection, criticism, or embarrassment — so much so that they often avoid social, occupational, or academic activities where those risks might arise.

Tuesday, September 15, 2026

List and journal prompts

​I was just posting lists and journal prompts here. Since I’ve stopped doing those… means I haven’t been posting here much.

But it is extended tax season so I’m busy. Also been sick with a cold. 

I think Skitty may be sick. Or well, just aging rapidly. 

Anyway, I will get back to lists and prompts. It seemed silly but I miss it. 

Saturday, September 12, 2026

Nap time

I love my bed so much. 

I’ve already had a 3-hour board meeting by zoom, filled out an HOA application to add a porch to our house with photos and survey, and had lunch out with our daughter. That’s enough productivity for one day.   

Except I still have more tax returns to prepare. 

Later. 

My brain needs rest. 


Monday, September 7, 2026

What made you happy this week

  1. Road trip with Sean 
  2. Time with friends
  3. Sleep
  4. Celebrating creativity and bravery and cleverness and community
  5. Pizza and hard cider
  6. Nanny Ogg hat
  7. Compression socks 
  8. Making it to top of hills (so much easier with 30 less pounds)
  9. Coming home 

Small Joys Project

Back in January 2023, I came across a British woman on Twitter who had written out 365 small joys on pieces of paper and put them in a jar, ...