Tuesday, May 19, 2026

29th wedding anniversary

29 years ago, while on our honeymoon, I married Sean Brodrick on a beautiful beach in Jamaica. It was a non-traditional wedding, but it worked for us. 

Through ups and downs and two kids and occasionally different approaches to life, we’ve made a good team most of the time. Enough of the time to weather any rough patches.

Donald Vaughan introduced us. He said to me: “you two have the same energy.” I was like “whatever man, I can use a free dinner!” But it turns out he was right. 

On our first date, we learned we both like and decorated our houses with gargoyles — a somewhat rare oddity — him because of horror movies, me for a love of architecture. That night, Sean introduced me to hard cider, and also he got lost and we did a detour through the Ft Lauderdale airport. I still refer to it as our favorite airport; we flew out of there for our honeymoon/wedding 2 1/2 years later.

The internet tells me that the 29th anniversary is the Furniture Anniversary. Whatever. We are celebrating tonight with a talk about e-bikes at a bookstore, then rum drinks at a bowling alley tiki bar. We like to do it our own way. 

I love you, Sean. Let’s keep this going. 


Steps to lessen phone addiction

Today’s steps to lessen phone addiction:

  • -AC maintenance check
  • -Phone call with insurance company 
  • -House projects with a deadline motivating me
  • -Leaving phone in charger during the day 
  • -Trying out a new board game

Saturday, May 16, 2026

If we had 9 children

  • ​Eleanor
  • Peter
  • John 
  • William 
  • Margaret
  • Clementine 
  • Twins: Andrew & Amelia 
  • Michael 

Monday, May 11, 2026

Keeping busy in Lakeland

​Some woman was whining on FB about nothing to do (esp after 8) in Lakeland. 

I wrote:

I don’t understand the folks saying there’s nothing to do here. 

In the past few months,  I’ve been to the farmers market multiple times, the Mayfaire art show, the Swan Derby, a trivia night at a local bar, bingo night at another bar, a current movie at the Lakeland Square Mall theater, a couple old movies at the Polk theater, a play at the community theater, two historic tours of downtown Lakeland, a craft event at the library, a craft fair at RP Funding, a book club meeting, and the Lakeland Book Crawl (a tour of all the bookstores in Lakeland). Not to mention trips to Bonnet Springs and a bike ride down Ft Fraser Trail. Many of these were free activities and some could include small kids. 

If you want more options, you’ll need a much bigger town.

I realized I forgot to list the art museum and the comic book/game store. 

Some people just want to be miserable.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Weight loss update

4.5 lbs down since I started Wegovy. 10 days ago

13 lbs down from a high in mid March (2 months). So I was slowly losing weight, the Wegovy is certainly going faster!

A photo from May 8


A photo from April 5 


Photo from Mar 21


Small Joys Project

Back in January 2023, I came across a British woman on Twitter who had written out 365 small joys on pieces of paper and put them in a jar, ...