How to tell apart cut glass and crystal
Tuesday, November 4, 2025
Monday, November 3, 2025
List things I did today instead of Doom Scrolling:
List things I did today instead of Doom Scrolling:
- Ok I did some doom scrolling
- Set up blocks for social media on phone to try again tomorrow
- Got a fantastic massage
- Got Amish ice cream with my boy
- Wrote a very large check
- Changed the beds (with cat’s help) and did laundry
- Resched doc and bloodwork appts
- Made plans for seeing live theater
- Caught up on Elsbeth and Great British Baking Show
- Coordinated New Years holiday plans with friends & hubby
- Admired the moon




Small Joys — lunch plans
Day 275
#67
invite someone to lunch
i reached out to Linda Lapaz again. A couple months ago we’d discussed doing lunch after tax season. But she hasn’t responded to two messages so far.
I will ask Anne tomorrow if I haven’t heard from Linda.
EDIT: Linda did respond. She’d been in the hospital. We’re having lunch tomorrow!
Sunday, November 2, 2025
Things I did today instead of doomscrolling
Things I did today instead of doomscrolling
- Hung out with family
- Drove my mother in law back to her home, 2 1/2 hours round trip
- Listened to several chapters of an audio book
- Sighed happily seeing my son fall asleep in the car like when he was a kid
- Made art and talked words & friendship & favorite aunts & ailing dogs & ailing friends with friends via video call
- Went to bed early with a book and a cup of tea because it feels like 9 pm
- Not drinking limoncello because my sugar levels are getting checked on Tuesday.
Too Smart By Half origination day
Years ago Sean suggested we could start a reality show about us, and it’d be named Too Smart By Half ‘cause we’re smart. But not always.
It has remained an inside joke for 30 years.
But now I’m gonna make it happen — on YouTube. Today was inspired by idea of visiting haunted locations around Tampa, which could be a fun day trip. And we joked about filming ourselves, like someone did in a goofy and scary movie. But ours would not be scary. Then we riffed back on our whole lives and adventures.
Too Smart By Half: Cindy & Sean’s Mostly Undramatic Adventures
A rudimentary plan is now in my To Do list app. So I think we’ll do it. A goofy project. And a nice way to stay in touch with friends. Already looking forward to guests on our show!

Ins & Outs November
IN:
- Sleep
- Meditate
- Walk
- Gratitude
- Family
OUT:
- Processed sugar
- Doomscrolling
REVIEW:
lousy. A simplified list did not produce focus. It’s been a chaotic month. Family was a big focus. Didn’t do enough of the other good things; and ate way more candy again than the last few months.
Good thing there’s a new month to try again
Saturday, November 1, 2025
Small Joys — slow and friendly
Day 273
#514
go slow
lovely slow day at the Ringling art museum with Nana and Nora.

Day 274
#515
meet new people
I went to Day of Games in Lakeland. Met Simon, David, Katie, Ryan, and others. I learned Cross Clues.

Small Joys Project
Back in January 2023, I came across a British woman on Twitter who had written out 365 small joys on pieces of paper and put them in a jar, ...
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Library events with crafts to share with Nora
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Things I did today instead of Doom Scrolling: 1. Slept in, then finished reading Track of the Cat, by Nevada Barr. 2. Spent serene half ho...
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re-organized my Things 3 app, cleaned up a lot of old tasks and unneeded tasks, made more efficient Improved my dental health with deep cl...